lỡ dở
Definition
Adjective:
- Unfinished / Incomplete: Describes a task, plan, or situation that has been started but not properly completed, often due to an interruption or unforeseen circumstance.
- Failed / Aborted: Refers to something that has failed to reach its intended conclusion or has been left in an unsatisfactory, unresolved state.
Adjective (emotional state):
- Unfulfilled / Left hanging: Describes a feeling, relationship, or promise that remains incomplete or unresolved, often leading to a sense of regret or disappointment.
Usage Examples
- Adjective:
- Công việc còn đang lỡ dở. (The work is still unfinished.)
- Kế hoạch du lịch của họ bị lỡ dở vì bão. (Their travel plan was aborted because of the storm.)
- Mối tình lỡ dở của họ là chủ đề của cuốn tiểu thuyết. (Their unfulfilled love is the subject of the novel.)
Advanced Usage
- The term often carries a connotation of惋惜 (regret) or ước giá (wishfulness) about the incomplete state. It is frequently used in narratives about missed opportunities in love, career, or life.
- Ông ấy luôn day dứt về những ước mơ lỡ dở thời trẻ. (He is always tormented by the unfulfilled dreams of his youth.)
Variants and Related Words
Dở dang (adj): incomplete, unfinished. This is a very close synonym, though "lỡ dở" often implies a stronger sense of being cut short or failed.
- Bức tranh vẫn còn dở dang. (The painting is still incomplete.)
Lỡ làng (adj): failed, ruined (especially of plans or expectations). This is often given as a direct synonym in monolingual dictionaries.
- Mọi chuyện đã thành lỡ làng. (Everything has been ruined.)
Synonyms
- Unfinished: not completed.
- Incomplete: lacking some part.
- Aborted: ended prematurely.
- Unfulfilled: not carried out or achieved.
Related Idioms
Lỡ dở dang: This is a reinforced form emphasizing the incomplete and unsatisfactory nature of something.
- Cuộc đời anh ta cứ lỡ dở dang mãi. (His life remains perpetually unfulfilled.)
Mối tình lỡ dở: a common phrase meaning "a failed/unfulfilled love affair."
- Bài hát kể về một mối tình lỡ dở. (The song tells of a failed love affair.)